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Being BIPOC in a World That Wasn’t Built for You

  • Writer: Kacey Skaggs
    Kacey Skaggs
  • Jul 13, 2025
  • 2 min read

Updated: Jul 19, 2025

Holding Space for Your Identity, Pain, and Power
Holding Space for Your Identity, Pain, and Power

To be Black, Indigenous, or a person of color in today’s world often means living in two realities at once. It means navigating systems that weren’t designed for you while carrying the richness of your culture, ancestry, and identity. It means holding pride and pain in the same breath. It means being asked to “adapt” while rarely being fully seen.


And that is exhausting.


The Weight You Carry

The stress of being BIPOC is often chronic, layered, and misunderstood. It doesn’t always show up as one big traumatic event - it accumulates slowly, over time:

  • Being the only one in the room

  • Having your experiences minimized or invalidated

  • Code-switching to feel safe

  • Navigating microaggressions that aren’t “big enough” to name, but sharp enough to wound

  • Feeling the pressure to succeed not just for yourself, but for your whole community


This is racialized trauma. And it matters.


Therapy That Sees the Whole You

Too often, therapy has been shaped by dominant cultural norms - ones that don’t always reflect the lived experiences of BIPOC clients. But your healing doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. In therapy with me, there’s space for all of you:

  • Your culture, language, and values

  • Your anger, grief, and exhaustion

  • Your joy, brilliance, and resilience

  • Your complicated family dynamics and your generational strengths

  • The moments you’ve stayed silent and the ones where you’ve roared


I approach this work with humility, cultural awareness, and deep respect for the identities you carry and the spaces you’ve had to navigate.


The Power of Being Seen

Therapy isn’t just about talking - it’s about being witnessed. For many BIPOC clients, healing begins when you no longer have to explain, justify, or translate your experience. When someone looks you in the eye and says: I believe you. That makes sense. You shouldn’t have had to go through that.


That’s when healing begins.


You Are Not Too Much

You are not too angry, too sensitive, too outspoken, too quiet, too emotional, too anything. You are navigating a world that often refuses to acknowledge the full complexity of your identity. That’s not a flaw in you - it’s a reflection of systems that need to change.


You deserve rest. You deserve softness. You deserve to take up space.


Let’s Make Room for You

If you’re tired of holding it all together, or unsure how to even begin unpacking it, you’re not alone. Therapy can be a place to exhale. A place to remember who you are outside of survival mode. A place to begin writing a story that’s rooted in your truth - not just in what the world expects of you.


You're allowed to be fully human here.



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